She’s a loving girlfriend. Thoughtful, sweet, caring… and lied to.
He’s a faithful boyfriend. Honest, kind, understanding… and taken for granted.
“What’s my fault? What have I done wrong”, is a very common question of people like them. Just when you thought you’ve given everything, it still isn’t enough.
“Ayoko nang maging good girl. Niloloko lang pag mabait”, she spoke.
“Magpapaka-bad boy na lang ako. I’m tired of being good”, he uttered.
“It’s about time I play the game”, they both said.
This is how some people think after they came from dire relationships. What is it really about playing the field? Are you equipped for the battle? What satisfaction can be obtained from this kind of retaliation? Will it satisfy in the end?
It dawned on me that the cliché “there are lots of fishes in the sea” isn’t a good line to give to those who are broken. It is true that there are lots of fishes but not everybody knows how to bait or what decoy to use.
Someone told me that the reason, probably, why there are people who hurt or fool other people is because they’ve been a victim of the same fate before. True.
But of course, it’s still a matter of choice. Personally, I don’t think I’ll ever have time for such. But then…who knows? If ever that happens, I think I won’t tell anyone (hehehe just kidding!)
Seriously, having that kind of option isn’t really healthy and good.
Just like what I’ve mentioned on my previous entry, we have to learn how to forgive others, as well as ourselves. We shouldn’t make another mistake to make the issue fair.
It’s a matter of patience. Uhuh. Really. For now you might be in drought. In a famine situation. But that’s how it is. Feast will soon come. It’s also a matter of faith. Things will get better. And you have to be ready when that time comes. When it rains, it pours. And when it pours, it floods. And when it floods, you have to learn how to swim. Now wouldn’t it be more fun? :D
He’s a faithful boyfriend. Honest, kind, understanding… and taken for granted.
“What’s my fault? What have I done wrong”, is a very common question of people like them. Just when you thought you’ve given everything, it still isn’t enough.
“Ayoko nang maging good girl. Niloloko lang pag mabait”, she spoke.
“Magpapaka-bad boy na lang ako. I’m tired of being good”, he uttered.
“It’s about time I play the game”, they both said.
This is how some people think after they came from dire relationships. What is it really about playing the field? Are you equipped for the battle? What satisfaction can be obtained from this kind of retaliation? Will it satisfy in the end?
It dawned on me that the cliché “there are lots of fishes in the sea” isn’t a good line to give to those who are broken. It is true that there are lots of fishes but not everybody knows how to bait or what decoy to use.
Someone told me that the reason, probably, why there are people who hurt or fool other people is because they’ve been a victim of the same fate before. True.
But of course, it’s still a matter of choice. Personally, I don’t think I’ll ever have time for such. But then…who knows? If ever that happens, I think I won’t tell anyone (hehehe just kidding!)
Seriously, having that kind of option isn’t really healthy and good.
Just like what I’ve mentioned on my previous entry, we have to learn how to forgive others, as well as ourselves. We shouldn’t make another mistake to make the issue fair.
It’s a matter of patience. Uhuh. Really. For now you might be in drought. In a famine situation. But that’s how it is. Feast will soon come. It’s also a matter of faith. Things will get better. And you have to be ready when that time comes. When it rains, it pours. And when it pours, it floods. And when it floods, you have to learn how to swim. Now wouldn’t it be more fun? :D
will you?
ReplyDeletesheena
sheena, we won't know if she does. pero chachi's a good girl. keep it that way.
ReplyDeletemarami akong kilala na broken hearted tapos they played the game. they ended up hurting lang ulit. of course there will come a time that you'll fall for a player din.
=tish=
amazing how one feels better with just the thought of retribution :) i say let them play. let them learn the hard way that when you do play with anothers heart, your also store up pain for yours. it may not come in the form you imagined or in the one you anticipated, but we know this. everything comes back to you. one way or the other. and on a lighter note, some relationships do change people for the better. who knows? maybe your intended prey will also save your soul?
ReplyDelete:: S
when it rains, it pours harharhar
ReplyDeletei know it's raining on your end. nah! it's more of a storm! take it easy. but we don't have to worry, do we? you're a good swimmer ;)
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