Last Tuesday after I came home from work, I saw a wedding invitation on top of our dining table. My childhood guy friend is finally tying the knot. His bachelor days are over.
A friend told me before that the definition of a bachelor is -- a man who has missed the opportunity to make some women miserable. I did not agree. You see, men can make women’s lives miserable whether they’re married or not.
This exactly is one of the many reasons why some (or should I say most?) women are into playing games or taboo relationships.
Last week, I had dinner with a good friend of mine. She was sharing her stories about this married guy whom she finds interesting. At the end of the conversation, she told me “chachi, I like him".
There’s actually nothing wrong in liking someone who’s attached. What you would do next is a different topic.
Within our conversation, she unconsciously talked about her previous relationship. That topic isn’t new to me. And ever since we became friends and that issue is opened up, I never saw a tear in her eyes. That night, I saw it for the first time.
“Nakakainis chachi. Halos maloko ako nun kakaisip bakit niya ginawa sa akin yun. Inisip ko kung saan ako mali…. I believed everything he said. Yun pala he was lying. And sakit nun. Pag nawala talaga trust, mahirap ng I-continue ang relationship. Pwede na ring mawala ang love”… she spoke as she continued to cry.
“Alam mo, bale wala na kahit na gano ka pa ka-good girl. Bale wala na kahit gano ka pa ka-loyal. Kung loko ang bf mo, wala kang magagawa. If he’s a good liar, kawawa ka. Naisip ko nun, nung time na galit na galit na ko, ang kapal naman ng mukha niya. Hindi naman siya gwapo! Kung alam ko lang na gagawin niya yun, pinagpalit ko na lang sana siya sa isa naming tropa. Ok na, gwapo pa. Pero hindi kasi ako ganun. Siya yung love ko. ”, she cried more.
All I did was hold her hand. I didn’t know what to say. When it comes to topics like that, I don’t want to give any wisecrack. It just makes me silent…
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sowee, I don’t know how to end this entry...
A friend told me before that the definition of a bachelor is -- a man who has missed the opportunity to make some women miserable. I did not agree. You see, men can make women’s lives miserable whether they’re married or not.
This exactly is one of the many reasons why some (or should I say most?) women are into playing games or taboo relationships.
Last week, I had dinner with a good friend of mine. She was sharing her stories about this married guy whom she finds interesting. At the end of the conversation, she told me “chachi, I like him".
There’s actually nothing wrong in liking someone who’s attached. What you would do next is a different topic.
Within our conversation, she unconsciously talked about her previous relationship. That topic isn’t new to me. And ever since we became friends and that issue is opened up, I never saw a tear in her eyes. That night, I saw it for the first time.
“Nakakainis chachi. Halos maloko ako nun kakaisip bakit niya ginawa sa akin yun. Inisip ko kung saan ako mali…. I believed everything he said. Yun pala he was lying. And sakit nun. Pag nawala talaga trust, mahirap ng I-continue ang relationship. Pwede na ring mawala ang love”… she spoke as she continued to cry.
“Alam mo, bale wala na kahit na gano ka pa ka-good girl. Bale wala na kahit gano ka pa ka-loyal. Kung loko ang bf mo, wala kang magagawa. If he’s a good liar, kawawa ka. Naisip ko nun, nung time na galit na galit na ko, ang kapal naman ng mukha niya. Hindi naman siya gwapo! Kung alam ko lang na gagawin niya yun, pinagpalit ko na lang sana siya sa isa naming tropa. Ok na, gwapo pa. Pero hindi kasi ako ganun. Siya yung love ko. ”, she cried more.
All I did was hold her hand. I didn’t know what to say. When it comes to topics like that, I don’t want to give any wisecrack. It just makes me silent…
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sowee, I don’t know how to end this entry...
it still hurts. doesn't it?
ReplyDeleteryan
don't play the game. it's not good. tell your friend she's on the loosing end.
ReplyDeleteif the guy can lie to you while looking straight to your eyes, leave him.
sheena
tama si sheena.
ReplyDeleteWomen are heaven-sent to men. We are their salvation. That is why women should accept nothing less than love, adoration, and worship. It's only fair because we give everything we've got. And in the end, what do we really want? All we want is their happiness. We only want their selfish, horny, sorry hides to be happy.
This is a f*cked up world.
That is why we should reinstitute Goddess Worship. LOL!!!
-wiket
damn shit,leave the guy! told yah im better hahaha hugs chacha tight miss yah cutie
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ReplyDeletesheena, hay... hug na lang kita. wa ako masabi
wiket, ang taray talaga ng beauty mo. girls rule!!!!
bluestain, you always say you're better hahaha thanks for the hug. the best ka tlaga kahit na hindi ka kumakain sa jollibee *peace*
hahaha cha naman, i love jobee kaya wahahaha yum yum..hugs yah tight....so tight
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