Juin - Pensées Aléatoires III

I read from a magazine that "In order to sleep with a woman, she has to be in a state of confusion. A female in a confused state is easier to sleep with than a female who is horny. 'Coz you’ll most likely see the former than the latter in the Filipino population". Hahahaha I can’t help but laugh. Is there such truth? I just really find it amusing that most men think women are always confused.
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Until when should you believe that a friend is just really a friend?
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Can you still trust a person who lies to you straight in the eyes for a lot of times?
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When will a guy who says he will change, change? Let’s say, he’s been saying that for the nth time.
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There comes a time when you want everything for yourself. But not all the time the things you want can get along all together. You cannot say you want someone when you can’t even prove it. You cannot say that that someone is the only person that makes you happy when it doesn’t even show. If one thing makes you happy, you don’t let it go. If someone is important to you, you don’t let that someone slip away. It’s all a matter of choice because it was said that, “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose”. However, it can also be viewed in a different kind of context. It can be acceptable to let go of someone who is important to you, if your relationship isn’t healthy at all. When everything revolves around lies. When the only thing that keeps your relationship going is hiding all your “businesses” behind someone’s back and other acceptable reasons.
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I agree that in a relationship, emissaries are a no-no. Flirting, indeed, is the first process of crossing the line of infidelity. And a guy cope with infidelity with denial (truly!) and the lady involved becomes more attractive (if she can look that attractive) to the cheater (certainly!). I say nonverbal cues speak a lot…
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I learned that there is such a girl who can be considered mabait kaso malandi. I guess it’s because mabait is a very broad word.
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For a couple of months I’ve been in a very sickening dimension. Been a victim of a very sickening façade. You told me before that if someone will give up, it would be me. You were right…’coz you made it all possible….